et cetera with Bouge & Rouge
In the city that never sleeps, there are many stressed out millennials overdressing and overpaying and overthinking. Nobody wants to reveal the mess of musings swirling in their minds or how they snagged a last minute reservation at 4 Charles, but everybody wants the tea and the truth. So let's bffr and spill it! From dating to career to personal growth, tune in to "et cetera with Bouge & Rouge" to open dialogue about all the fun and not so fun things that ruminate in our minds. Continue the conversation on Instagram @etc_podcast and follow @bougeandrouge for blog & YouTube content!
et cetera with Bouge & Rouge
Ep. 35 | HUANG GANG
Huang Gang or die. JK JK. Shoutout to all of my friends - past, present, and future - who shaped me into the woman I am today! This episode is because of you :)
Let's talk about the trials and tribulations of adult friendships. There are circumstantial friendships (ones you make in school, when it's situational, etc.) and substantial friendships (ones that last because you both nurture it). Your 20s are where you'll find yourself building or breaking these relationships. Today, I share my experiences with cliques, growing pains, girl fights, and avoidant people. I walk you through multiple scenarios with different people I've encountered in my 20s and what lessons I extracted from those situations. Lastly, I give my two cents on how to keep quality friendships as you get older to make sure everyone is a substantial and not situational friend.
DISCLAIMER: This is not an episode made to "spill tea" or trash anyone in my past but rather share what those hardships taught me and how I currently carry myself in adversity with others.
*NOTE: Sorry the audio is not super consistent. I'm still trying to understand my new apartment's acoustics and how to adjust so the mic isn't so sensitive to P sounds and background noises like our AC or air purifier.*